It started a few months ago as a joke with my daughter saying I should sell foot pictures. Because honestly, I have sexy adult feet “for my age,” haha. I’m not going to lie; I laughed out loud when she said that. But the more we joked about it, the more the idea stuck in my head, and after a ton of research and detailed conversations with my husband, we decided to take the plunge. I’m 42, and it’s true when they say 40s change people. Sexy adults decided to take the plunge. I’m 42, and it’s true when they say 40s change people. Sexy adult, there are days when I say, “Okay, I can do it, my sexy feet are still available and look good,” and there are days when I say, “You’re 42, what are you thinking with my shoes?!” Do you sell foot pictures or costume items on ATW? Am I having a midlife crisis? Don’t get me wrong, it’s been great so far, and we’re enjoying the interaction. But after a day of self-doubt, when someone tells me I’m old and a few other obnoxious things that I “shouldn’t be here,” naturally, those words come back to me. I was scrolling through threads, not making any sales, and I started to wonder if I was naive or stupid for telling myself that I don’t have what the adult sexy young guys have, that maybe he’s right, that I’m old. Then my husband said something that made me think, “You’re right, baby.” He said that I always tell other sexy adults how beautiful they are, regardless of their age, skin color, or size, so why can’t I do the same for myself? Not everyone is the same, and everyone has different tastes. This got me thinking, and I realized that what he says is 100% right. He sees me naked and says he loves every inch of my body. Sure, it doesn’t look the same as when I was 25, but it has a history. I, too, used to be 1.50 meters tall, long, thick, dark hair, hourglass-like tiny waist, thick thighs, butt, and cute little legs, but then I had a child in my early 20s. As we sexy adults know, our beautiful bundles of joy can take a lot of damage to our once-beautiful bodies. Luckily, I was active, and my weight bounced back from 80 kg to 54 kg. I felt like my old self again and was still excited to go out. Cute outfits, high heels, underwear, makeup, wild nights, experiences, etc. Then I got a little older, got a bachelor’s degree in early childhood education and photography, traveled, taught for 18 years, and continued to grow. But the point is, as we get older, things start to change; our kids grow up, and we get used to our routines, jobs, hormones, medical, marriage (especially after 20+ years), and our lives in general. We feel good; before we know it, we go from 20 to 42, 50, 60, and it feels like the blink of an eye. And our once “perfect” little figure is no longer perfect. It’s so hard to lose weight, be sexy like an adult sexy, properly supported, keep our butts firm and firm, and keep all our assets intact. Still, we should keep working hard to maintain what we have and embrace our adult sexy selves, not just in our “good” years but well into our 40s and beyond. Unfortunately, because of history, we “older” people over 40 are sometimes looked down upon. Sometimes, people forget that just because we are a certain age, it doesn’t mean we are washed – we don’t have mothballs in our pants. We “old” adults who are sexy have our quirks, too, and accepting ourselves is important at any age, but even more so in our 40s and above. Each year comes with more experience; we should be comfortable with our skin. We can do this; let it show if we still have it. Age is just a number; some adult sexy are lucky enough to age like fine wine. After all, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and we at Sexy Adults believe that we are beautiful regardless of age, skin color, body type, breast size, butt, or foot size. So don’t judge a house by its shutters alone because you never know what beauty lies within. We are all born different, and each has something to give. The Sexy Adults at ATW have taught us that. No matter our age or body type, we are a queen, and it takes real courage to put ourselves out there as Sexy Adults and do what we do. The long hours of messaging, photos, videos, clothing, accessories, posting content, paying for subscriptions, and more is a full-time job. Between full-time day jobs, motherhood, cooking, cleaning, and the never-ending daily activities, we still make time to fulfill someone’s tastes and needs. That’s what I call a naughty “superwoman”. So, ladies, pull yourself together and keep putting out content. Not every day is a walk in the park, and not everything always sells, but with hard work and dedication, we will continue to grow. Those who think that adult sexy over 40 shouldn’t do this are wrong. We, too, deserve to be treated like goddesses. We have a lot to offer if you give us a chance.
